MY girlfriend confessed that she had never had an orgasm, either on her own or with a partner.
We started dating two months ago. I am 31 and she is 27.
We discussed having sex for the first time recently, which is when she made this confession. I’m not sure how to deal with that.
I am very glad she told me. I am a typical alpha male and would prefer to know rather than feel a failure if she doesn’t climax during sex with me.
Most of the women I have slept with have had an orgasm and I consider myself a generous lover.
She wants us to work together to see if we can do it.
ADVICE:
It is great she is being honest with you – and working together is the best policy.
My e-leaflet on Women And Orgasm gives lots of practical guidance.
Encourage her to give you feedback as you explore her sexual responses, so you can learn what feels good for her and she learns to take responsibility for her own sexual satisfaction.